I do not know is it just me or is my colleague who has the same age as me but our thinking are totally different. Perhaps i am too old fashioned or too mature =x We have different views on below 3 issues.LoveI think love is the greatest thing in life and everyone deserves to be loved and no one should toyed any others' feelings. Being in love is wonderful because you will feel as though you are the happiest man in the world and there is a source of motivation every day. Only by being in love we will understand the phrase absence make the heart grow founder and how much the person meant to us.Having a Gf
Getting into a relationship should expect long lasting ones and not having the mindset of there are better girls out there waiting for you, so why give up the entire forest for a tree. I do not like seeing people having flings like those in a relationship for 2-3 months and broke off because i will never understand why do they even bother to be together in the very first place. To see if they are sutied? That is why we must really love the person because going into a relationship if not will only end up breaking off very soon. Never love a person for a reason. Let's say you like this girl because she has beautiful eyes. what if one day she had an accident and eyes are damaged? So will you no longer like her anymore? We should love each other base on our feelings and not by anything else.Marriage
Marriage is a life time commitment because it involves setting up a family so it is something we should think twice before stepping into it. It requires great responsibilities and stability. It is like a lifelong investment, you cannot quit suddenly otherwise both parties will suffer the damage greatly. Marriage is the greatest moment of your life and if you ever walk to this stage with someone, it should be a rationale decision and hence it is something to be proud of.I do not why i think this way which my colleague totally thinks in the opposite way and he tried to rebutt me. Perhaps i don't come from a very perfect family and thus i want to create my own perfection family that is ideal. Already plan to marry at 28 but am single and poor man. Haha..ok time to dream. goodnight everyone!
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